We had a plumber booked in for a job this morning. ‘First thing’, he said. I should have questioned this more rigorously and pinned down a time, but I didn’t – and it turns out that his idea of ‘first thing’ is either this afternoon or next Saturday.
This inconvenienced me, and my colleagues too – but I’m reluctant to make a fuss because he’s good at his job and I know he won’t overcharge me. If (and when) he finally turns up!
But I trust him a little less now – and I have the details of a backup plumber if he doesn’t deliver this time.
So he doesn’t know it but he’s in the last chance saloon – and he’s lucky even to be there! When it comes to professional appointments – interviews, meetings etc – it’s crucial to show up when you say you will, even if it’s ‘only’ an online call.
I have a weakness in this regard – I am naturally what’s known as a ‘time optimist’. As a student I would be late for (or absent from) every single lecture, and I got a well-deserved reputation for being totally unreliable. In my arrogance, I was almost proud of this. Then, at some point in my twenties, I started to realise that I needed to change my ways. So I did. It took a little while, but I now have a completely different attitude to timekeeping; in fact, I’m impatient with people who behave like I did before I saw the light.
But because time optimism seems to be in my DNA I occasionally slip back into bad habits, which frustrates me and annoys others. I’m very sorry to all those people who have waited for me over the years – especially during those dark pre-mobile days.
So don’t be like me, or like my plumber. Be a time pessimist instead!
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